“When you know better, you do better.” – Maya Angelou
Do you feel like you date the same wrong person over and over again? Or are you in a relationship and feel like you have the same fight over and over again?
It feels sort of like being trapped in that 1993 movie with Bill Murray, Groundhog Day, where you can’t seem to figure out how you got here again (and again and again). This is the last video before the Real Love Revolution starts on February 1st and there are so many of you who want to talk about your love blocks and learn about them, which is what I am covering in this video because once you move them out of the way, you can either uplevel your current relationship or stop wasting your time dating the wrong person over and over again.
In this Real Love Revolution video, I discuss:
- Love Blocks
- Different Types of Attachment Styles
- Understanding Your Love Blueprint
- How Awareness Can Change Your Love Situation
So, what are love blocks?
I’ve been a relationship expert for almost 20 years and what I’ve observed is that so much of what happens in our love lives has to do with the old material – behaviors that we’ve learned from our family of origin (the family that we grew up in.) But this isn’t about blaming anyone or making your family wrong, it’s just that you are the way you are in love and in relationships for a reason. Without being aware of unresolved or unconscious material, changing unfulfilling patterns can be nearly impossible. But you can intentionally become aware of this material. To pull back the curtain on who you attract romantically and learn why we combine your attachment style, download your romantic love blueprint below
If you are interested in diving deeper into your attachment style and love blueprint plus learning how to attract real love OR how to give your relationship a boost (or the boot!), sign up for one of my FREE Masterclass webinars coming up this week. Ladies, this is the last chance!
- For more relevant wisdom and A-ha moments regarding why YOU are the way you are when it comes to LOVE, join my free Master Class for Singles: Become a Love Magnet on Monday 1/30 10am ET or Tuesday 1/31 6pm ET. Sign up here: https://terricole.com/rewrite-your-lovestory
- OR join my Ladies in Relationship Master Class: 5 Ways to Reignite & Refuel Your Relationship in 2017 – If you are in a relationship, and want to learn proven strategies and tools to keep your relationship vibrant and connected OR decide if you should Stay or Go this class is for YOU on TUESDAY January 31st at 8pm ET Sign up here:>https://terricole.com/Reignite-Your-Relationship
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Thanks for watching, reading and sharing!
And as always, take care of YOU.
I recently broke off a nine month relationship with a widower. He struggled to meet my emotional needs and I believe that is because he never healed from the loss of his wife almost eight years ago. His fifteen year old daughter enjoyed me at first, but as I got closer to her dad, she began being disrespectful to me. Their relationship is very enmeshed; neither had friends and relies on the other for everything. It was almost ‘spouse like.’ I was the only one in therapy and worked closely with my therapist on how to deal with the situation. I tried and gave as willingly and generously as I could. But, when there are two other people in the relationship who have done no work on themselves or the situation, it’s a no-win situation. I’m still hurting and wishing I had seen the signs earlier. The good news is, I believe he opened my heart again to love. I will pray that springtime will bring me a healthy man with adjusted kids, or no kids.
Lynn,
Thank you for sharing your story here with us. It sounds like you are doing all of the right things for you and I will also be sending you vibrant, healthy love energy 😉