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Top 4 Relationship Killers (and how to avoid them!)

December 8, 2020 //  by Terri Cole

What makes relationships fail?  Are there specific behaviors that spell out disaster when it comes to love in the …

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Category: VideosTag: contempt, Criticism, defensiveness, effective communication, relationship killers, stonewalling

Top 4 Relationship Killers on The Terri Cole Show

271 Top 4 Relationship Killers (And how to avoid them!)

December 8, 2020 //  by Terri Cole

Communication is such an essential part of romantic relationships. This show is inspired by the work of researcher …

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Category: Podcast, The Terri Cole Show, The Terri Cole ShowTag: behavior, behavioral patterns, conflict, Criticism, defensiveness, Gottman Institute, John Gottman, relationship

How to Get Your Needs Met

May 19, 2020 //  by Terri Cole

What’s the best way to get your needs met? Communicating them clearly and effectively. Hands down, the most life and …

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Category: VideosTag: constructive dialogue, defensiveness, effective communication, how to get your needs met

245 How to Get Your Needs Met (Scripts Inside!)

May 19, 2020 //  by Terri Cole

In today's episode, I talk about how to get your needs met by avoiding ineffective communication. I talk about the …

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Category: Podcast, The Terri Cole Show, The Terri Cole ShowTag: defensiveness, effective communication, Needs, needs met, Non-violent communication

Stop Being Defensive + Learn to Listen

April 1, 2019 //  by Terri Cole

When someone comes to you with an issue about a choice you made or an action you took, do you feel like you immediately …

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Category: VideosTag: defensiveness, effective communication, learning to listen, Relationships

Stop Being Defensive + Learn to Listen on The Terri Cole Show

187 Stop Being Defensive + Learn to Listen

April 1, 2019 //  by Terri Cole

I'm super passionate about effective communication, and a HUGE barrier to effective communication and healthy …

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Category: Podcast, The Terri Cole Show, The Terri Cole ShowTag: debate, defensiveness, dialogue, divorce, healthy relationships, listen

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