Are you a Co Dependent Over Functioner?
When someone you love has a problem in his or her life or is in pain, does it feel like it is happening to you? Do you offer unsolicited advice on how to “fix” their situation? Do you think YOU know what they “should “ be doing to live their life correctly?
If you answered yes to the above questions then the answer to the Co Dependent Over functioning question is a resounding YES YOU ARE!
So check out this weeks tip and release your perception that YOU know what anyone else needs to learn on this life journey (kids are a different story and a different Vlog 😉 or that AVOIDING all situations that create pain or discomfort is the goal.
Learn how to tolerate your feelings of anxiety and ACTUALLY add value to your loved ones struggle by lovingly holding space for them to learn whatever it is they need to with the added comfort of your love and true support.
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Have a wonderful week and take care of you.
Love Love Love,