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“When you are managing everyone else’s feelings, the likelihood that you’re sitting around thinking about your own feelings is very small.” – Terri Cole
Intro
Most little girls grow up being cared for by their mothers.
Some little girls grow up caring for their mothers.
This episode is for the second group. We are talking about parentified daughters. What it means, why it happens, and how it may still be impacting your life now.
Highlights:
- 3:40 Understanding emotional and instrumental parentification
- 7:30 Circumstantial parentification
- 10:30 How managing everyone else’s feelings leads to self-abandonment
- 11:15 The way parentification shows up in adulthood
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