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October 2026
Love, Boundaries + Father Wounds
An afternoon conversation with Terri and four fellow therapists on how our early experiences with our fathers shape the way we love, the boundaries we struggle to hold, and the patterns we’re ready to break.
Grieving the Father You Had and the Father You Needed
A healing conversation between Terri and grief expert David Kessler on the grief of having a father who was absent, critical, or unavailable, and how it shows up in your adult relationships.
Father Wound Virtual Retreat
A live afternoon with Terri and a community of women beginning to heal their father wound, celebrating the release of Father Wound. Free with your book preorder.
Transforming Father Wounds: A PESI Workshop for Clinicians
Clinical tools for helping women heal the father wounds that drive anxiety, perfectionism, and relationship struggles, and rebuild self-worth, boundaries, and healthier relational patterns.
November 2026
Winter Park Institute
Terri joins the Winter Park Institute for an in-person conversation.
By invitation only
The Father Wound Book Club with Terri
Some books you read. Some books you need to talk about. Read Father Wound together with Terri, chapter by chapter, with real conversation about what comes up.
Yung Pueblo + Terri Cole: Journey at The Strand
Terri sits down with bestselling author Yung Pueblo to celebrate the release of his new book, Journey: The Year That Changes Everything.
The Father Wound Course with Terri
Terri’s flagship course to understand and heal your father wound. See how your relationship with your father shaped your self-worth, your boundaries, and who you let in, and learn the tools to stop it from making your choices for you.
Innovations in Psychotherapy: Friday Keynote + Workshop
On the final day of the premier trauma therapy conference (November 10–13), Terri gives a keynote on how father-daughter injuries shape worth, boundaries, and relationships, followed by a clinical workshop drawing on her new book, Father Wound.
Godmothers Gather: Terri Cole
An evening with Terri on Father Wound: how our relationships with our fathers shape our self-worth, and how to heal the patterns they leave behind.
2027
Wisdom & Wellbeing 2027: Boundaries & Relationships: The Skill That Changes Everything
Healthy boundaries are the structure that makes real closeness possible in relationships. In this session, we’ll explore why boundaries can feel so difficult to set, where the resistance comes from, and how resentment can build in their absence. We’ll uncover your boundary blueprint and the patterns that keep you over-giving, over-explaining, and under-asking. You’ll learn to recognize your triggers and how to stay emotionally regulated in the moments that matter most, so you can respond from clarity instead of reactivity. You’ll leave with easy boundary scripts for hard conversations, and a clearer sense of how to stay connected to others without losing yourself in the process.
The Highly Functioning Codependent: When People Say You’re Too Much
A transformational weekend for helpers and caregivers ready to stop over-functioning, break the patterns of high-functioning codependency, and build healthy boundaries.
Psychotherapy Networker Symposium 2027
Terri joins Vivek Murthy, John and Julie Gottman, Gabor Maté, and more at the largest annual gathering of psychotherapists in the world.
Solo Retreat with Terri Cole
A week-long retreat with Terri in Costa Rica.
Kripalu with Terri Cole + Alexandra Solomon
A weekend program with Terri and relationship expert Dr. Alexandra Solomon.