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“I’ve been told that great love is transformative. I think that grief or great suffering is the other invitation into transformation.” – Rainier Wylde
Intro
Today’s guest is Rainier Wylde, a man who has lived many lives, from managing a Fortune 500 company, to becoming a psychotherapist, to helping people navigate the human soul.
I found Rainier on Instagram – what he wrote about resonated so much that I invited him on the show. We largely talk about the messiness of being human — dating unavailable people, our shadow selves, infidelity, grief, and so much more.
Rainier has such a gentle soul, and I hope you enjoy this conversation as much as I did.
Highlights:
- 3:20 Rainier’s thoughts on the mother hunger
- 5:10 Rainier’s experience with mother hunger
- 7:15 Repeating relationship realities (unavailability)
- 14:00 Rainier’s transformational experience
- 16:55 Admitting to infidelity
- 23:45 Finding a safe place
- 25:20 How men and women handle their shadows
- 29:50 Sitting with grief
- 33:40 Rainier’s most challenging boundary struggle
Connect with Rainier Wylde:
An experienced teacher, writer, and speaker, Rainier has embraced life for all that it is. He has celebrated its highs and learned from its lows. He has managed a Fortune 500 company and built businesses, he has also elegantly blown them up, burned them down, and started over from scratch. He holds a masters degree in psychology and has spent countless hours working with men and women in navigating the human soul. Through the various positions he has held, he has discovered that life must be claimed to hold any worth. His work is to inspire others to live, fully and deeply, in the here and now.
Substack: https://rainierwylde.substack.com/
IG: https://instagram.com/rainierwylde
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