“All healthy love is boundaried love– And that’s not a block, that’s a bridge to deeper intimacy.”
– Terri Cole
When you get into a new relationship, do you ever make assumptions that the other person has the same morals, values, and integrity as you…
…without having a conversation about those things?
Do you think healthy relationships just develop naturally on their own?
If this is you, you’re not alone. These are some of the most common pitfalls we can hit early in relationships, that is, unspoken assumptions + lack of communication around boundaries.
In this episode, you’ll learn the top 5 most important foundational boundaries for you to create at the beginning of a relationship (or to establish in a long-term relationship) for an EPIC partnership.
- 04:11 Positive projection makes it difficult to accurately assess your partner
- 05:14 Make silent agreements explicit
- 07:30 Boundaries set your partner up for success
- Boundary categories
- 08:50 Physical boundaries
- 12:10 Emotional boundaries
- 14:20 Sexual boundaries
- 16:05 Intellectual boundaries
- 18:00 Financial boundaries
Find the downloadable guide I made to go along with today’s episode here.
Take the boundary quiz and learn more about your Boundary Style
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