“The satisfaction of attacking others is super short-lived. Saying mean things doesn’t improve your position, it lowers your integrity.” – Terri Cole
If something is really important to you, can you go to the mat for it?
Do you know how to negotiate and stand up for what you want? Or do you avoid the conflict and potentially end up living with regrets?
Knowing when and how to fight fair for what you want is part of being a boundary boss and essential to living your most satisfying, self-determined life!
That’s why in today’s episode, I’m walking you through how to pick your battles wisely, how to stand your ground, and how to negotiate like a pro.
- 02:24 Pick your battles wisely: Only go to the mat for things that are important to you
- 06:58 Sometimes conflict is necessary even if it makes you uncomfortable
- 08:16 Take your time so you can negotiate for your needs mindfully
- 10:26 Stay calm
- 10:56 Create a plan and know what you need from the negotiation
- 13:44 Form a partnership against the problem
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