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STOP Taking Things Personally on The Terri Cole Show

235 STOP Taking Things Personally

STOP Taking Things Personally on The Terri Cole ShowToday, I’m talking about how you can stop taking things so personally so that you can feel empowered to live your life.

Do you get offended easily? In this episode, I’m going to give you 6 simples steps to understand why you might be taking things personally.

I talk about which questions to ask yourself when you are feeling offended by something that someone did or said, how to know if you’re projecting, what transference is, and much more.

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“You never want to be in the position of giving people you barely know power over you.” – Terri Cole

Show Notes:

  • How to stop taking things personally
  • Is the person who is criticizing you important to you?
  • How to know if you are projecting
  • What is projecting
  • How to become less sensitive
  • What is a transference
  • Who knows the truth?

“It is not in your higher or best interest to give your power away to others.” – Terri Cole

Links Mentioned:

  • Your Guide to STOP Taking Things Personally

“You do not want to be in the position of giving people you barely know power over you.” – Terri Cole

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Comments

  1. Tee

    March 13, 2020 at 5:30 pm

    I find not taking things personally and setting boundaries/teaching people how to treat me VERY CHALLENGING. Its a very thin line. How do I manage this internally?

    Reply
    • Terri Cole

      March 16, 2020 at 8:56 am

      I hear you. It’s possible you are using it to benefit you in an indirect way. In some of my other videos, I talk about secondary gain. You can find this by asking yourself- What do you get to avoid facing, dealing with, or feeling by continuing to take things personally? Continue to observe with curiosity and kindness towards yourself.

      Reply
  2. Christine Phillips

    August 19, 2020 at 1:36 pm

    Episode 235 hyperlink to the worksheet does not work. Can this be fixed, so I can download the “homework”?

    Thank you,
    Christine

    Reply
    • Terri Cole

      August 20, 2020 at 2:23 pm

      Thanks for the heads up. The link seems to be working now. Here you go https://www.terricole.com/stop-taking-things-personally-guide/

      Reply
      • Tania Lee

        September 18, 2020 at 6:45 am

        Hello, why do l only take things personally with my partner. Over the past 4 years he’s the one who seems to have the power. My previous marriage of 10 years, l was the powerful one. When l look back, l didn’t like that about myself. Does it seem like l take things personally from just my partner because l see him more or is it because lm always scared off making a mistake. I never feel good enough. In the past he was very judgemental but he’s lessened that knowing l do take things personally. We only argue over small silly things and l know l get defensive but l feel l have no control and do l act irrational. Please help me xx

        Reply
  3. Tania Lee

    September 18, 2020 at 7:04 am

    https://www.terricole.com/stop-taking-things-personally-guide

    There is no link, nothing there

    Reply
  4. Sarah

    November 9, 2020 at 8:20 am

    There is no link

    Reply
    • Terri Cole

      November 11, 2020 at 7:17 am

      Hi Sarah,
      Are you seeing the link under Show Notes? If not, let us know!❤️

      Reply
  5. Julia Craig

    November 18, 2020 at 12:03 pm

    Hi!! The link doesn’t work! Please could you send a new one. Thank you Terri! ❤️

    Reply
    • Terri Cole

      November 23, 2020 at 8:19 am

      Hi Julia,
      Are you seeing the link under Show Notes? If not, please let us know ❤️

      Reply

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