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“Deep contentment and happiness, just like real love, can only come from within.” – Terri Cole

 

Intro

Are you running low on happiness and joy in your life after everything we have been experiencing for the past two years? Do you have relationships that drain your energy and happiness?

If you’re nodding yes to either of those questions, this episode is for you. I’m going to share four steps that will help you take charge of your own happiness, joy, and contentment, even when the outside world makes it difficult.


Highlights:

  • 02:44 We can’t have true happiness without caring for ourselves
  • 05:21 Defining happiness
  • 05:58 Don’t prioritize the wants, needs, and desires of others above your own
  • 09:06 Distinguishing real generosity from codependency
  • 11:41 Are you invested in others to the detriment of your own internal peace?
  • How to create your own happiness:
    • 14:49 Become more aware of behaviors and relationships that suck your happiness away
    • 15:27 Invest in self-love 
    • 16:22 Create a brag book
    • 17:55 Strive for excellence, not perfection

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  1. Hi Terri,

    I am in your course Crushing Codependcey and I started reading your book Boundary Boss. Wow!! I am learning so much and so relieved to know there is help for my issues. This sounds sttrange, but reading about other people who have done similair things to keep an unhealthy relationship going, also give me a feeling of not being alone in this unhealthy pattern. Your podcasts and soothing vloice and keys to getting into a healthy spaced with myself are helping.me. 12 step Cods meetings helped, too, but I connect m ore to your workds and theraputic advice.

    THANK YOU! YOu are beautiful, kind and so smart!

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