REAL LOVE REVOLUTION STARTS IN:
Does this sound like you?
You feel compelled to over-give your time and attention in ALL your relationships, including your romantic partners, friends, family, etc. You are always there for everyone else, yet you hesitate to ask for help when you need it.
You feel responsible for basically everyone and everything in your life. You are constantly striving for personal and professional perfection. You help solve problems to help those you care about around you and... you are simply exhausted.
This leads to doing many things you don’t want to do (which in turn leads to anger and bitterness) or bailing at the last minute (which leads to guilt).
This negative cycle causes you to feel frustrated, and fed up with dating or resigned to being unhappy or unfulfilled in your relationships.
Is love really all about being in the right place at the right time? Or is there more to it than that? Being a psychotherapist for over two decades, I can tell you conclusively that real love is far more than coincidence or luck.
Personally, I went from being "unlucky in love" to meeting and marrying my soulmate over twenty years ago. Through years of therapy, I uncovered, what I now call, my Downloaded Love Blueprint and this is when my "luck" changed.
I was so surprised and thrilled to find the love of my life (since I truly believed it was not in the cards for me) that I became obsessed with helping others do the same. As a licensed psychotherapist and relationship expert for the past two decades, I’ve taught thousands of clients and students to attract and keep Real Love in their lives based on self-knowledge, self-love and my proven techniques for transformation.
If you are tired of online dating and the right-swipe hookup apps OR if you are in a relationship and find yourself wondering, "Is this all there is?" You're in the right place!
“After a 20 year marriage and many years of marriage therapy, I honestly didn’t think I had that much to learn about love and relationships. Boy was I wrong. Something about the way Terri takes us through the process in RLR, and being able to witness, hear and share stories with other women in the program helped me learn the self-compassion to heal parts of myself that needed to heal. I would recommend RLR to ANY woman who wants to improve or enhance ANY of her relationships - including the relationship with herself.”
A PROVEN 10-WEEK PROGRAM THAT PUTS YOU IN A NEW STATE OF REVOLUTIONARY FUNCTIONING, EMPOWERING YOUR PURE POTENTIAL AND INFINITE POSSIBILITIES FOR REAL, HEALTHY LOVE.
it’s not called The Real Love Revolution® for nothin’. This work is designed to rewire any limiting beliefs about yourself, what you deserve, what you are worth and how lovable you are.
You’ll finally learn how to give, accept and recognize healthy love. You’ll walk away knowing how to deeply love yourself first so you can be free & nurtured in all of your relationships.
Designed from over 20 years of clinical experience by psychotherapist, relationship expert and master coach, Terri Cole, this 10-week coaching program is methodically constructed to take you to the next level of empowerment so you can attract and maintain vibrant, healthy, lasting love.
Real Love Revolution® is about deepening your self-knowledge and clearing away any old stories or unconscious material that is limiting your potential so you can access the radiant, confident, powerful force within you and create the vibrant, lasting love life you dream of…one in which you are cherished, adored and authentically known, seen and heard.
The lessons are delivered in Terri’s warm, real, direct, no-BS style and are grounded in science, blended with Eastern mindfulness practices plus harnessing the power of your intention and practical action-taking to create positive, sustainable change.
Your love journey will be unique to you, of course, but know this:
There is a positive ripple effect of awesome when you learn how to become empowered in your life. You become lighter, your energy becomes brighter and...yeah, feeling completely free to be as magnetically attractive and as powerful as you actually ARE feels pretty damn good too.
Here’s what makes Real Love Revolution® unlike anything you’ve done before:
The primary goal of Real Love Revolution® is to teach you how to fully integrate an entirely new way of being in the world into your day-to-day life. That’s why all of the practices, techniques and concepts are informed by the 5 Pillars of Self Mastery, to accelerate your personal growth without burning out or staying stuck at a certain juncture.
These 5 distinct stages of personal, emotional and psychological development are essential to actual, real, sustainable transformation. When approached in a systematic, guided way, they hold the keys to deconstruct any corrupted fear-based information and to replace it with the pure potential and infinite possibilities of your one-of-a-kind amazing LOVE life!
Real Love Revolution® isn’t just another self-help book or course that tells you what to do but not HOW to actually do it. It’s a fully supported and expertly guided discovery of your heart’s deepest desires, of your greatest truths and of your authentic voice and strength.
Approached with a therapeutic methodology and applied practicality, all of the exercises and tools are designed for use in your real life, in the real world.
Step-by-step, you will learn how to overcome any blocks around love and actually practice how to tap into your deep intuition and build real intimacy and respect in all of your relationships by living and speaking your truth. You’ll not only learn these techniques, but you’ll also imprint them on your subconscious through therapeutic meditations, daily practices, and rituals.
This program is designed to transform your internal and external world in just 10 weeks, (Well...actually with the Bonus module it ends up being more like 12!) but the new behavior patterns you’ll integrate during our time together will be with you for life.
The practical and positive psychology tools inside Real Love Revolution® won’t just improve your love life...these are skills that will improve your entire life exponentially, bringing you to a new level of well-being and optimal, healthy, whole-hearted functioning.
If you know Terri, you know that this is her life’s work, and she delivers (even over-delivers!) the goods. There’s no beating around the bush or shying away from the uncomfortable.
As a licensed psychotherapist and master coach, Terri isn’t just giving you material to learn, she’s guiding you through the implementation with step-by-step instructions, then supporting you live during our Real Love Revolution® coaching calls and within our private community, so you can get your specific questions answered, stay inspired and stay on course.
"Terri helped me create a new, much more positive thought pattern of possibility around love. And it was really sanity-saving. Really, I’m so grateful.
Terri is the kind of person you want to have on speed-dial for any new relationship, or those tough passges in relationships. She helps you see what the pattern is that’s coming in to play, and what the underlying motiation is - and then teaches you how to respond to it in a healthy way.”
Desire Map Author, Speaker, Entrepreneur, and Blogger
Terri Cole is a New York-based, licensed psychotherapist, relationship expert and founder of Real Love Revolution® and Boundary Bootcamp®, her two empowerment courses reaching women in over 25 countries.
Prior to her current incarnation as a love and relationship expert, Terri was a bi-coastal talent agent negotiating endorsement contracts for supermodels and celebrities. Her lack of satisfaction in the world of entertainment led her to change careers in her 30’s to become a psychotherapist and female empowerment expert. For the past two decades, Terri has worked with some of the world’s most well-known personalities from international pop stars, athletes, Broadway performers and TV personalities to thought-leaders and Fortune 500 CEOs. She empowers over one hundred thousand women weekly through her published articles and blog posts, therapeutic meditations, online courses, and her popular podcast, The Terri Cole Show.
Terri's strategies combine practical psychology, eastern mindfulness practices plus harnessing the power of intention to create sustainable positive behavioral change i.e. true transformation.
She has been featured as an expert therapist and master life coach on A&E’s Monster In-Laws, TED X, The Lisa Oz Show, Real Housewives and had a weekly radio show on Hay House Radio. Plus she regularly writes for The Huffington Post, Positively Positive, The Daily Love, Well+Good, and has been featured in Italian Elle, Forbes, Origin, Vogue, Self and most recently was on the cover of Inspired Coach magazine.
Terri presenting to students at RISE 2019
Terri with Davidji, Danielle LaPorte, Seane Corn
Terri and her spiritual crush Deepak Chopra
A 10-WEEK PROGRAM THAT PUTS YOU IN A NEW STATE OF REVOLUTIONARY FUNCTIONING,
EMPOWERING YOUR PURE POTENTIAL AND INFINITE POSSIBILITIES
WHAT YOU GET
Terri Cole's Real Love Revolution® contains everything you need to become aware of and learn how to eliminate your love blocks - all with expert guidance from Terri herself. Every week, you’ll start one module, which you can access from your computer, tablet or mobile phone from the convenience of your couch.
HERE'S WHAT EACH MODULE IS COMPOSED OF:
A set of integration exercises.
Weekly integration exercises take your intellectual understanding of the content to the next level by personalizing it. Knowing the information is only step one of the transformation. Step two is integrating that information into your real life.
The program is designed to transform your internal and external world in just 12 weeks, but the new behavior patterns you will integrate during our time together will be with you for life.
Weekly Livestream Coaching where Terri answers your Love & Relationship Qs!
There is no one size fits all when it comes to creating Revolutionary Love.
That's why this program is live. Real people interacting in real time.
In our weekly live group coaching sessions, you will have the opportunity to ask specific questions and get personalized answers from Terri directly.
For your privacy, security and convenience you can access all program materials on our education platform
All your programs are beautifully available for you and accessible on desktop, tablet or smartphone.
HERE IS THE CURRICULUM:
We spend 2 weeks on each pillar of Self-Mastery for full integration. Each module focuses on a different aspect of love and emotional intelligence and builds progressively through a series of video lessons, integration exercises and therapeutic mediations, all guided by Terri herself.
The curriculum is supported by weekly live group coaching calls that are an intimate experience and a powerful opportunity to be coached personally by Terri on any love struggles or blocks.
We begin with Self-Awareness. So much of the time we’re operating on only half of the information we actually need to make informed choices in life. We will be raising our awareness of any unconscious material that might be informing our behavior, so that we can shift into making mindful, conscious choices that support the kind of love we truly want.
We do this by uncovering your Downloaded Love Blueprint, or the set of beliefs and stories around love and romance that you saw growing up. We will design and reconstruct a brand new love blueprint that is aligned with your heart’s desire.
This week, we will work towards cultivating mindful awareness within the present moment as we become the observer of our own lives without judgment. We will use the Childhood Inventory to gather important information about how your self-image and self-regard came to be.
Then we’ll take inventory of your past romantic relationships in order to understand the impact these experiences have had on where you are right now.
We move into Self-Knowledge so we can get total clarity on what is actually blocking you from getting what you really want. We tackle codependency, over-functioning and overgiving.
The Repeating Realities, Emotional Transference, and Displaced Aggression exercises help identify original injuries and locate the negative behavior patterns that are holding you back.
We continue to gather self-knowledge with the Fearless Relationship Inventory as we take a close look at all of the relationships in your life so we can identify how you’re feeling the majority of the time.
You’ll start to understand what is and what isn’t working from within, because it’s only from that place that you can actually make lasting change. We dial into the power of your intention and visualization to create better outcomes, more joy and more REAL love in your life!
It’s time to write your new love story and dare to declare what you want in your life! We move into Self-Acceptance. We’re going to amplify everything you’ve learned so you can put it into action, push through any resistance you might be feeling and accept yourself for exactly where you are right now.
We will dive into limiting beliefs and learn the art of positive affirmations so you can begin to rewire your inner dialogue and raise your energetic vibration to attract more of what you really want.
This week is about radical self-forgiveness as we turn towards our shadow self and learn how to recognize, process and release shame and guilt.
You will learn how to accept yourself completely and honor all the parts of you: the light alongside the dark, the accomplishments alongside the mistakes. Transformation can only be built on the solid ground of truth, and this week, you’ll gently look at the truth of who you are and where you’ve come from, so you can intentionally create your future from a place of freedom and authenticity.
We also touch on Narcissism and the Narcissism/Codependency connection in this module.
SELF COMPASSION I
We move into Self-Compassion. You need compassion for yourself in order to create your dreams in real life. This week is one of deep healing as we connect to the child within. Terri gently guides you through the stages of inner child work so you can gain clarity about the experiences of your past, to honor and release them.
You will get the 6 Keys to Master Voluntary Vulnerability and learn how to be vulnerable with discernment so you can live whole-heartedly and create more joy and real intimacy in your life.
SELF COMPASSION II
This week we move into creating healthy boundaries in your relationships and in your life. You will learn why real love can’t exist without healthy boundaries, uncover your unique boundary blueprint and get empowered to finally claim what is and what is not ok with you.
We cover how to fight fair and how to effectively communicate your needs, preferences and desires. You’ll get a Boundary Cheatsheet that will give you actual scripts with the words you need to set boundaries with ease and grace.
SELF LOVE I
Ready to fall madly and deeply in love with yourself? In week 9, we move into Self-Love and embrace our own worthiness as we create beautiful experiences just for ourselves. You’ll learn about attachment styles, how to become more secure in yourself if you are in a relationship, and what to look for if you are on the dating scene.
After surveying thousands of women, we discovered that most did not grow up with healthy real love role models. And it’s impossible to know what no one ever taught you, but totally possible to learn it now. In this module, you’ll be guided to find your real-life Love Mentors so you can create your own roadmap to a love that lasts.
SELF LOVE II
Self-love is a way of life, a decision, a choice and a daily practice. In this last official module of the course, you’ll get more tools to help you deepen your practice of revolutionary self-love including:
Preference & Pleasure 5 Senses Makeover
Week 11 Self-Celebration Bonus!!!!
We are going to rock out during this bonus week as we celebrate how far you’ve come because we’re throwing ourselves a self-celebration party! Whoo-hoo!!!
In this bonus week we will dive into:
Your entire life will be upleveled by what you learn about yourself in the next 12 weeks.
And because you have lifetime access to the entire curriculum, you can refer to it over and over. These transformative tools and resources are yours to keep forever.
DON'T JUST TAKE OUR WORD FOR IT...
Click on any of the images below to watch what people who have actually experienced the Real Love Revolution®, and worked with Terri, have to say about it…
INCREDIBLE TRANSFORMATION AT AN ACCESSIBLE PRICE
People pay thousands of dollars to work with Terri in-person,
but you won’t have to spend anywhere near as much.
Terri has packed everything she’s studied, tested, and learned about the transformational power of REAL love into this 11-week intensive coaching program. Every tool, every strategy, and the words you need to finally create the EPIC love and life you want is in here.
All for just $997 USD
(payment plan available)
That’s an incredible offer to learn from one of the most engaged, powerful teachers and thought leaders of our generation.
MONEY BACK GUARANTEE
This program is for you if you are authentically interested in learning the skills to become a Love Master.
Your satisfaction with our Program is important to us.
We have a 14 Day money-back guarantee. We know how much of a game changer this approach, tools, and program can be for you if you do the work.
The Friendship Breakthrough (or Break Up) Guide
is a Mini-Course where you will learn a step by step process to assess the friendships in your life, deepen existing connections, and attract new friendships.
This mini-course is designed exclusively for women because female friendships can be complicated and possess their own set of unique challenges as well as beautiful opportunities.
This is no ordinary training. It’s a transformational deep-dive into your friendships with proven strategies to become empowered to create more fulfilling and joy-filled connections in your life.
Along with the 60-minute training, you will have instant access to:
Flip the Script on Fear
Flip the Script on Fear with Marie Forleo, Kris Carr, Kate Northrup, Esther Perel, and powerful leaders.
Stop letting fear run your life and your relationships. Learn from some of the world's leading experts with exclusive access to Terri's Flip the Script on Fear interview series and breakthrough your fears in every area of your life!
Self-Celebration Dance Party with Deb Kern
To celebrate YOU we’re having a dance party.
Shake off the stagnancy, connect to the Divine, and step into your power — radiant, clear, and free.
I’ve been dancing with Dr. Deb Kern for years and I am SO excited to share her method with you so we can celebrate your new skills with a rockin’, deep soul shakin’ dance party! She’s curating a class just for us!
After 35 years of studying and teaching movement, Deb Kern has created PranaShakti - a conscious movement practice that combines elements from many forms of dance, Ayurveda, Kundalini Yoga, and Hatha Yoga to remove energy blocks, liberate trapped energy, reconnect mind and body, reawaken creativity, pray with the body, and express emotions. You can expect to sweat, laugh, cry, pray and be set free.
TWO group integration Zoom video calls w/Terri
to get their personal questions answered + guide them to integrate the strategies they learned into their real lives. One scheduled for the last week of Real Love Revolution® and the other the week after that.
Digital Guided Meditation Bonus Bundle
(Includes Terri’s Meditation Transformation and Meditation Integration digital CD’s)
Here’s everything you get when you enroll:
Plus you will receive the following bonuses:
Registration for Real Love Revolution® is open until January 22nd, 2021.
The live program is 12 weeks and starts on January 20th, 2021
If you’re traveling or have other life commitments during the course, it's not a problem. All students receive access to the program material for life (and yes, that includes the updates we make every year).
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