If you’re ready to release the blame, guilt and anxiety that haunts you and feel ‘pure happiness for the first time in years,’ then you need to…

Understand & Transform
Your Mother Wound

Join the revolutionary 6-week program that will guide you to heal your pain of childhood, with Boundary Boss and renowned psychotherapist Terri Cole
go to: terricole.com/motherwound

We Live in a Culture That Teaches Us to Worship Our Mothers…

‘Honor thy father and thy mother…’

‘Mother knows best…’

‘Mother love…’


From day one, Mom is the center of our universe. She’s the lifegiver and caregiver. She’ll rock us to sleep as babies, and hold our hand when life gets rough.

(At least, that’s according to Hallmark.)

But what if life at home was far from perfect?

What if you had a terrible or simply bad experience with your mother?

What then…?

So, What Is the Psychological Impact of Being ‘Under Mothered’?

Perhaps you’ll save this page and read it in secret. You cannot believe that someone knows how you feel... Because until now you’ve been too ashamed to admit, that your Mom:

  • Lacked empathy for you, but rained praise on your sibling.
  • Expected you to take care of her. You were the one she leaned on.
  • Never let you express negative feelings, and stifled your growth.
  • Made you her ‘friend’ and placed waaay too much on your shoulders. 
  • Had a rough upbringing herself. (Sure, you had clothes, and food on the table—but she never let you forget it.)
  • Was an addict. And put her addiction before you.  
  • Abandoned you. (Yes, even in her passing…)

Now, here’s the cold hard truth:

YOU DO NOT NEED TO HAVE BEEN RAISED BY A MOTHER TO HAVE INCURRED A MOTHER WOUND.

We could be talking about a grandma, a foster mom, an older sibling, or an aunt.

The bottomline is how you were treated, and the imprint it left on you.

BUT YOU ARE NOT ALONE…

So Many Clients Tell Me: ‘I Always Knew I Didn’t Have a Regular or ‘Normal’ Relationship With My Mom.’

Maybe this resonates with you…

‘I have an inner mean voice constantly telling me that I am not enough, that I am shameful and somehow to blame for my own suffering’
‘I feel love in my heart for my Mom. But I cannot let go of her constant blame, shame and gaslighting.’ 
‘For so long I tried to keep the peace and be the ‘good daughter’…’ ’
‘We never knew what version of Mom would show up one day to the next. We could be having a great day—and one look would ruin everything.’ 
‘My mother had an entirely different public and private persona. She was cruel and scary at home, yet everyone thought how lucky I was to have her.’ 
‘I just had to accept her passive aggressive comments even though they would cut me to the quick…’ 

Enough! It Doesn’t Have to Be This Way...

You cannot escape your past.

But, if you decide to show up for yourself and do the work, there is a way to live without so much guilt, anger, fear or resentment.

Facing your past, and healing your Mother Wound, is a profoundly powerful way to unlock your true birthright.

And that means learning what it is to be authentically happy…

To trust your gut, feel worthy of love…

And finally live the life you deserve.

SO, TAKE A DEEP BREATH AND REMEMBER:

Right now, YOU are in the exact right place, at the exact right time to be empowered to take your life back.

Well Hello There, I’m Terri Cole, 

Licensed psychotherapist, and leading global expert in mindfulness, meditation, relationships, and wellbeing.

I’m the founder of Real Love Revolution, Boundary Boot Camp and author of Boundary Boss: The Essential Guide to Talk True, Be Seen and Live Free.

I’ve worked with some of the world’s most well-known personalities from international pop stars to Fortune 500 CEOs…

Every week I empower over 1 million people  through my platform, online community and popular podcast, The Terri Cole Show…

And now I’m teaching you the exact strategies I’ve used for more than 2 decades in my psychotherapy practice, to help you break free of the pain and confusion that comes from having a Mother Wound—and learn how to live in peace and freedom.
INTRODUCING
The only 6-week program that takes my world-famous 5-Pillars of Transformation and applies them to the pain you’ve felt since childhood...

Showing you how to face your past, heal your shame, and build a life you can be truly proud of.
Here’s what you’ll cover inside this one-of-a-kind program:

What exactly is the Mother Wound and how does it impact your life? In this foundational module we’ll look at the psychological implication of having a mother who ‘under mothered’ in one way or another, and how to overcome the wounds you have carried since childhood.

In This Module You’ll Learn:

  • Mother Wound - Causes
    Deep, brave work that takes you back to your childhood, and honors your experience to begin your heal]ing.

  • Signs & Symptoms
    Fear of rejection. Weak boundaries. Self-sabotaging behaviors. Guilt. The list goes on…  Here you will learn how the Mother Wound may be showing up in your life—and how to liberate yourself from its impact.

  • Benefits of Healing
    Find the courage to admit what you truly want, and release the shame, guilt, blame and ‘not enough-ness’ you’re feeling now.

Good or bad, your relationship with your mother shapes your life experience. It sets the tone for how you’ll behave in relationships as an adult, and how you relate to other people—and yourself.

That’s Why This Module Will Reveal:

  • The 8 Toxic Mothering Patterns
    Unpack the unhealthiest ways that mothers and daughters interact—and be honest about which most resonate with you. This is transformational work. Because it’s crucial to understand what happened in your past, in order to change your present.

  • Attachment Theory
    A mother who actively loved and nurtured you will pass on a sense of security. But what happens when that’s not your story? Here we unpack the theory of psychologist John Bowlby, so you too can learn how to nurture relationships that support your safety and security.

  • Healthy Mothering Behaviors
    What are the functions of a healthy Mom? Because if you never had that, it can be challenging to replicate in your own life. Learn now how to fill that gap—for the sake of yourself, and your own (or future) children.

This module uncovers your unique ‘Downloaded Blueprint,’ or, in other words your learned set of beliefs and behaviors of how relationships are ‘supposed to be.’ An essential practice, because only in doing this can you shift into making more mindful, conscious choices.

In This Module You’ll :


  • Start to Heal Your Guilt and Shame
    An incredibly important part of the healing process is to recognize the difference between guilt and shame. Right now you may not trust anyone in your life, leaving you lonely and afraid. But no more. This training releases your anger and shame—and helps you to move out of the darkness, into the light.

Like a mother like daughter, right?

Wrong. This module is an intervention. Together we’ll break the legacy of toxic behaviors, so that next time you say, ‘I’m never behaving the way my mother did,’ you’ll mean it, and know how to keep your word.


In This Module You’ll Learn about:

  • Repeating Relationship Realities
    Here, we draw on the work of psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud and learn why as human beings we have the tendency to repeat what’s familiar, even if it causes us pain. And more importantly— you’ll uncover how to stop this cycle in its tracks.

  • Emotional Self Regulation
    Ever feel like your emotions are happening to you, rather than coming from you? This training will break down the strategies you need to get a handle on your emotions, your behaviors—and your life.

  • Shifting Your Relationships
    Bravely, energetically, shift the relationships that no longer serve you. Bottomline: you get to decide who has the privilege of being in your life. Period.

Congratulations! This is the final module of the program.

Put simply, this module teaches you how to treat yourself with all the gentle, loving kindness you may not have received as a child. And when you do, an entire world of opportunities will open up to you.

In This Module You’ll Learn about:


  • Mourning the Dream
    Admit the truth. Your experience is real and your feelings are valid. It can be difficult to accept that your mother was far from ‘perfect,’ but you must face the truth—because how can you possibly change anything if you’re in denial? Here we will help you feel supported and cherished as you begin to accept, process and move on.

  • Intentional Self-Parenting
    Step into your own ability to tenderly protect and cherish the child within. As a child, you needed to rely on others to meet your needs, but now as an adult, you can take stewardship of re-parenting yourself.

  • Boundaries Guide
    Creating better boundaries and speaking more truthfully is all about making the small, mindful shifts one right action at a time, that move you closer to showing up as the most authentic, fully expressed version of you. No more abandoning your truest self to keep the peace. You SO deserve to be authentically known and deeply loved.

This Program Changes Lives.

 I never believed I would want to be a mom or have a family and now I think I could…

This program changed my life. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I really never believed I would want to be a mom or have a family and now I think I could with more learning on healthy family dynamics, etc.

‘It's the most beautiful gift you've given. Truly. Thank you.’


--Alexandra


 
 This program has broken boundaries…

‘Just thank you, thank you, thank you. How you treat us, talk to us, how you understand and empathize.

‘You make me believe in myself, and that I matter and it means the world to me. This program really has broken boundaries in terms of providing expert advice and support on how to deal with a Mother Wound and how to start to heal.

‘It has been challenging, upsetting and I've had to dig deep but doing this work means I have a happier future ahead and one that is not controlled and manipulated by someone else. It really is life changing work you are doing.’

--Susie

 

This program was sent to me by a friend at a truly God Moment.

‘I was at the lowest of lows and I was scared.

I see now that while I may not have done anything specific, the wound I have been carrying my whole life, dramatically affected how I interact in relationships.

Now I feel like I am finally on the right path and will one day have the life I long for.

‘Thank you for bringing hope back to me.’

--Kara-Lee

Here’s How ‘Understand & Transform Your Mother Wound’ Can Liberate Your Life 

Healing this primal injury and taking impeccable care of yourself are both vital for you to thrive. tending to the original injury of a mother wound, you can begin to trust the process of life and trust yourself.
Learn to release yourself from resentment prison, when you accept your mother’s limitations without allowing them to define you.

Feel at peace in your own skin, in a way you never have before.

Drop the need for control. Stop the cycle of feeling like other people are rejecting you when they don’t live up to your expectations.

Finally stand up for yourself and have the confidence to feel seen and valued for who you truly are.

Silence your inner critic, that internalized judge and abuser who makes you feel small, not good enough, and rips you apart any chance it gets.

Stop renting space in your head to people who have been abusive or unkind to you.

Feel authentically happy. Find joy, delight, and gratitude in things that once felt like a burden.

Take your power back, and create a life you love living, with the abundance you deserve.

Create space in your life to discover who you want to become, and how you want to live.

Trust yourself, others, the divine, and in life itself.

Go From ‘Stressed and Sad, to Strong and at Peace’…

 This awareness has allowed me to forgive her, heal, and stay on ‘my side of the street.’

‘Love, love, love this program! For years I was stuck in a cycle of calling my mother, getting into an argument with her, then feeling guilty. I knew I needed to address this but had no idea how.

Now, because of this program, I am able to have a healthier relationship with her because now I realize her shortcomings and that they don't need to affect who I am and how I interact with others as an adult.

This awareness has allowed me to forgive her, heal, and stay on "my side of the street." From the bottom of my heart, thank you! This is amazing work that you are doing and so needed.


--Elizabeth

 
 Now I know that all the mean girl talk and behavior was a product of my toxic mothering…  I will do everything I can to ensure that my amazing, incredible, smart girls never need to take a program like this.

Because of my Mother Wound I constantly and consistently talked myself out of almost everything and convinced myself I wasn't worthy. This is the first program I have started AND completed in YEARS!
‘I AM worthy of my OWN success and what that means to ME. I am worthy of investing my time and money in myself and creating a career and life based on who I am and what I want.’ 


--Emily
 

For the first time in 17 years I had a smile on my face of pure happiness…

‘Terri, I found you during a time of deep despair and hopelessness. I have gone from stressed and sad to strong and at peace. I can now say that no matter what happens in the future I am ok.

‘I am ok within myself and that is something I never thought I would get to. I always had this deep feeling of unworthiness and I constantly never felt good enough for anything in my life.

‘For the first time in 17 years I had a smile on my face of pure happiness. I had to stop myself and ask, " could this be my life now? Could I truly be happy?" and I now know that the answer is yes.’
I am excited to say that this generational trauma will end with me. 


--Megan 



Here’s What You’ll Get With This Program

5 x Live Group Q&A Calls with Terri

5 x Video Lessons from Terri

15 x downloadable worksheets for all program modules

Proven tools, strategies and scripts from 2 decades on the frontline as a psychotherapist

Lifetime access to all program recordings.

A community of powerful like-minded, like-hearted women who share your experience, and are committed to their own healing—and yours!

Plus: All the Self Care, Meditation, and Energy Work You Need To Support Your Transformation…

Healing your Mother Wound takes courage, intention and a great deal of bandwidth. We’ll revisit memories you’ve kept under lock and key your whole life—and you need to be kind to yourself in the process.

So, how can we fully support you in doing this work?

Self care. Real self care.

That’s why in every module you’ll find meditations, energy techniques, tools and strategies, customized for your unique place in this journey.

Discover How to Be a ‘Better Mother for Yourself and Your Children’...

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 Now I feel like I can be a better mother for myself and my children. 

‘I would love to thank you very much for this program. I really feel like I received a lot of value, education, and support that I needed. Your knowledge and the way you communicate is so inspiring, engaging and I love your sense of humor. Now I feel like I can be a better mother for myself and my children.
Thank you for all you do.’


--Aga
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 This was the exact thing I needed to put verbiage to so many hurts I’ve had for so long, and didn’t know they were all related.

‘I’m so thankful I came across your podcast and found this program. This was the exact thing I needed to continue my healing journey and put verbiage to so many hurts I’ve had for so long and didn’t know how they were all related. I am forever grateful I found this program.’


--Kayla

 
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 This close and deeper contact with you was an AMAZING experience.

‘Thank you for this life changing experience. I’ve been listening to your podcast and using the material available on your website for about 2 years now. My life started to change since then.

‘However, this closer and deeper contact with you was an AMAZING and even deeper experience. Thank you, thank you, thank you for everything!’


-- Monica
 

Listen, Stop Waiting for Permission. This Is Your Call to Show Up.

You no longer need to answer to your mother, seek her approval, or walk on eggshells in her presence.

And, if she was absent, that pain of wishing your life was different stops now.

You are not the victim.

Because from this moment forward, you are going to rewrite your future and be the hero of your own story. Only you have control over your destiny, and the power to change it.

How do I know that?

Well, through this program I’ve helped hundreds of women bring themselves back from the brink, stop their legacy of pain, and end the cycle of toxic behavior…

Even when they thought it was impossible.

Women like Alexandra, whose past was so painful, she was afraid to become a mother herself—and now she can visualize it…

Or Megan, who never, ever felt good enough, yet during this program felt a rush of true happiness in nearly 2 decades…

And I want to help you feel the same.

But I don’t want you to have to pay thousands of dollars to work 1:1 with me.

I want you to start your journey now, so you can access the right knowledge to understand, heal, and transform your Mother Wound…

So you can finally lay your past to rest, and take back your power from the fallout of self-sabotage, guilt, and misery that stops you from living a full and wonderful life.

That’s why I created this 6-week program, and that’s why I’ll show up live to support you.

But I’m not going to charge you its full $5,200 value. (I think you’ve endured enough.)

Understanding and Transforming Your Mother Wound has the power to change your life if you’re willing to show up. And if you’re reading this far, I know you will...

That’s why you can gain access today for just $575.

(And I’m offering a 6-pay option to make saying YES to yourself even easier!)

Know this: it’s my mission to help you ease the constant anxiety that makes your heart race—and build the calm, confident life you deserve.

So, stop waiting for permission. This is your call to show up for the child you once were, and the woman you are today.

Enroll now and I promise, I’ll meet you there—not with judgment—but with love, understanding and compassion.

Learn How to Understand and Transform Your Mother Wound Today


5 x Live Group Q&A Calls with Terri ($1,000 value)

5 x Video Lessons from Terri ($700 value)

15 x downloadable worksheets for all program modules ($1,500 value)

Proven tools, strategies and scripts from 2 decades on the frontline of psychotherapy ($2,000 value)

Lifetime access to all program recordings.

A community of women who share your experience, and a commitment to move forward with their lives. 

Finally, Feel ‘Seen, Validated,’ and Have Hope That You’re ‘Going to Be Okay’...

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 Terri, you were my version of the mother I needed during this work.


‘It was extremely helpful to learn all this material. Terri, you were my version of the mother I needed during this work. You have a very tender, straightforward and loving way, which was what I needed. Thank you.

--Kelley 
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 I felt seen, and validated and am given hope that I can heal and change my life

‘My deepest gratitude for creating this program and for having such incredible insight into the experience of a person with a Mother Wound. I felt seen, and validated and am given hope that I’m going to be okay, that I can heal, and change my life with the self awareness garnered through this program.’


--Carolyn

 
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  The program changed me, although I have been in therapy for 15 Years 

‘The program taught me to take care of myself in emotionally challenging moments. Meditation “safe place” and Energy Lara ‘Experiential Meditation’ became especially important to me. The program changed me, although I have been in therapy for 15 Years. Thank you so much!’

--Zaiga
 

Money Back Guarantee

We know how scary it is to put your time and money into a program that promises incredible transformation. But, we also know that this is absolutely possible—if you’re willing to put in the work.

But, if for whatever reason this program isn’t for you, we’ll give you your money back, no-questions-asked.

That’s why we offer a 14-day, no-quibble money back guarantee.

I’ve got your back. You have nothing to lose, and everything to gain. 

Questions Your Fellow Peers Asked About The Program

Once you enroll through our secure order form below, you’ll receive an email to confirm your registration and then the course will officially start on May 12th when we will give you access to the course portal.

So here’s what we know.…

The traditional way of taking courses is: You invest in a course, and you study it by yourself in your own time for about 8-10 hours. Some might do it over a weekend, and others might stretch it out over several months. But you’re doing it by yourself. It lacks accountability, excitement, and live interactions.

Understand and Transform Your Mother Wound was intentionally designed so that you go through the program along with hundreds of others with live support, accountability, and guidance.

1. Everyone Starts On The Same Day (May 12th)We start together because we’ve found that when students learn as a part of a group, they get better results and have way more fun!

2. Small Steps = Real Change Each week's content offers simple steps and strategies that will move you toward your liberation.

3. Micro-Learning: Fits Even Your Busiest DaysYou can learn at your own pace by setting aside 10-20 minutes a day, or a longer session on the weekend to do your integration exercises.

4. Better Together We incorporate community learning for maximum results. All our students have the opportunity to connect in a community to support, witness, and cheer each other on!

The program starts on Tuesday, May 12th and lasts 6 weeks.

The course materials will be made available weekly so we can work through the material together.

The first Q&A Coaching Call is on Tuesday, May 19th at 12:00 PM EST (New York) and is 75 mins long.

All of the calls will be recorded and available in the education portal within 24 hours.

We understand that not everyone may make every call due to work situations or time zone differences. However, there is value in the call whether you attend it live or listen to the recording.

Also, you can submit your questions in advance for the call and listen to the answer to your question on the call replay.

The course has both recorded and live components.

Every Tuesday, we start a new module. You will always have a week to work through the content before the Live Q&A Coaching Call takes place.

You can access all the videos, meditations, transcripts, PDFs, and more, by logging into the course portal which you can access from your computer, tablet, or smartphone.

We have made it so you can also download the audio, transcripts, and PDFs and save them on your devices.

Plus you can ask questions and share your takeaways right inside the membership portal.

The 5 Live Coaching Calls are on Tuesdays at 1:00pm EDT (New York) and are 75 minutes long.

Don’t worry if you can’t attend live, though. You can always submit your questions ahead of time and a replay is uploaded to the portal within 24 hours.

Here are the call dates:

Module 1 - Tue, May 19th @ 1:00-2:15pm EDT

Module 2 - Tue, May 26th @ 1:00-2:15pm EDT

Module 3 - Tue, June 02th @ 1:00-2:15pm EDT

Module 4 - Tue, June 09th @ 1:00-2:15pm EDT

Self Care week, No Call on June 16th

Module 5 - Tue, June 23th @ 1:00-2:15pm EDT

This program gives you structure, support, inspiration, and community as you begin your journey. In fact, it’s a curated experience thanks to the community and the flexible structure.

You can learn at your own pace by setting aside 10-15 minutes a day, or a longer session on the weekend to do your integration exercises.

I recommend that you watch the videos and do the exercises as you get them each week, and estimate that it will take 1-1.5 hours a week to do the exercises and 75 minutes to attend or listen to the Q&A Coaching call.

I highly recommend that you spend 10 minutes every day doing the meditation as well and add a self-love date to your calendar for the Q&A call.

Don’t forget that you have lifetime access to the program so you can always rewatch and revisit any content.

When you purchase Understand and Transform Your Mother Wound, you have lifetime access to the materials.

That means that ALL of the content is downloadable and you’re more than welcome to save the lessons onto your computer so you’ll be able to access it as long as you’d like.

Let’s talk ‘overwhelm’ for a second. Overwhelm happens when you do something different. There are many unknowns and as humans, we have a natural and primitive aversion to the unknown.

Here’s the thing…

If you’ve been carrying the weight of a mother wound around for your entire life, that, too, leads to overwhelm. So let’s get to my tried and true way to manage ‘overwhelm.’Being gently guided on the new journey by a caring coach with lots of experience.Baking in time for Self-Care to enable your healing.Just getting started!

I created this program to give you the freedom to be centered, grounded, and known in your life. Which is the opposite of feeling overwhelmed.

We will take our time so you are not changing all the things, all at once.

Understand and Transform Your Mother Wound was created to help you break free of the unresolved injuries of the past so you can consciously create the relationships, career, and life that thrills and fulfills you.

My detailed, step-by-step process puts you on the fast track to transformation and empowerment. As long as you promise to do your part, I promise to fully show up and gently keep you on track.

For clarity, this program is not a substitute for therapy but can be a powerful complement to it.

If you are in therapy currently, feel free to share the program information with your therapist to get their input.

If you have past trauma that has been treated, Understand & Transform Your Mother Wound is appropriate for you.

If you have painful past trauma that has not been treated and that negatively impacts your life and relationships, this course may not be appropriate for you.

If in doubt, please contact us at support@terricole.com.

We totally get it. And our number one priority is that you feel safe and supported.

The world is topsy-turvy right now. And you’re the type of person that’s used to pouring into others...not investing in yourself.

So taking an online program that costs more than you might have spent on just yourself maybe ever?

It may be out of your comfort zone for sure.

But if the past year has shown us anything, it’s that it’s nearly impossible to be happy (and it’s also highly uncomfortable) when our own wants, needs, preferences, and desires are not being expressed nor respected.

Now, if you truly can’t afford this program, we understand. And we want you to stick around because Terri offers advice in other places that will be beneficial.

But if you’ve got that feeling in your gut that says YES! I AM WORTHY OF THIS TRANSFORMATION... (that you haven’t been able to find through following the “traditional” path you’re currently on)...but you’re just a little skeptical, we offer a payment plan option and a 14-day refund policy.

So that means you can get in today for just $99. Get your login information and check out the welcome content inside the course dashboard. Introduce yourself and start the morning meditation routine.

If you decide it’s not for you, just email support@terricole.com and we’ll refund you your first payment. No hard feelings.

Yes! Read about our 14-day satisfaction guarantee here.

Know This: You Are Brave and Courageous. And What You’re About to Do for Yourself Is Inspirational.

I’ll see you on the inside…
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