Do you think that you want to be in a relationship, but deep down there is a part of you that doesn’t want to be in a relationship? Sometimes our own ambivalence is stops us from going after what we romantically desire.
On this show, I also talk about limiting beliefs and the harm of being ambivalent. I share my own experience growing up in a male-bashing family and how I’ve healed from my own limiting beliefs. Once you understand your history, patterns, and self-love, you can be open to loving someone else.
If you need more support on your love relationships (whether you’re single or partnered), then now is also a great time to join Real Love Revolution. Let’s make 2021 your year of epic love!
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“Whether you are partnered or whether you are single, you definitely have a downloaded love blueprint.” – Terri Cole
Show Notes:
- How to rewrite your love story
- Why are you still single?
- The harm of feeling ambivalent
- What a limiting belief is
- The importance of mastering love
- What does male-bashing culture look like
- How to identify perfectionist tendency
- What is secondary gain
“Secondary gain is the non-obvious gain you get by staying stuck.” – Terri Cole
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“Perfectionism is like a prison that keeps your life very small.” – Terri Cole
I feel stuck in dating world. I was married 30 years and divorced. I started dating online 2 years after my divorce. So far I haven’t met person to date. What is wrong with me?
Hi Steli,
Thank you for being here, and I’m holding space for you with compassion as you navigate the dating world! I think a better framework for your question might be, what’s the common denominator in who I have dated in the past and what hasn’t worked for me? How am I presenting myself when I seek out people to date? Start to learn more and get curious about your past and yourself. ❤️