Is Ambivalence Sabotaging Your Dating Success? on The Terri Cole Show

Is Ambivalence Sabotaging Your Dating Success? on The Terri Cole Show

Do you think that you want to be in a relationship, but deep down there is a part of you that doesn’t want to be in a relationship? Sometimes our own ambivalence is stops us from going after what we romantically desire.

On this show, I also talk about limiting beliefs and the harm of being ambivalent. I share my own experience growing up in a male-bashing family and how I’ve healed from my own limiting beliefs. Once you understand your history, patterns, and self-love, you can be open to loving someone else.

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“Whether you are partnered or whether you are single, you definitely have a downloaded love blueprint.” –  Terri Cole

Show Notes:

  • How to rewrite your love story
  • Why are you still single?
  • The harm of feeling ambivalent
  • What a limiting belief is
  • The importance of mastering love
  • What does male-bashing culture look like
  • How to identify perfectionist tendency
  • What is secondary gain

“Secondary gain is the non-obvious gain you get by staying stuck.” –  Terri Cole

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“Perfectionism is like a prison that keeps your life very small.” – Terri Cole

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    1. Hi Steli,
      Thank you for being here, and I’m holding space for you with compassion as you navigate the dating world! I think a better framework for your question might be, what’s the common denominator in who I have dated in the past and what hasn’t worked for me? How am I presenting myself when I seek out people to date? Start to learn more and get curious about your past and yourself. ❤️

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