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“Your boundaries are your own personal rules of engagement. That is simple, but it doesn’t mean it’s easy– Especially if you are a people pleaser.” – Terri Cole


Are you the go-to person for your friends, colleagues, and family?

Do you over-give, over-function, over-feel, or put other people’s needs above your own?

Do you sometimes say “yes” when you want to say “no” to avoid conflict?

Or are you in the healing arts?

I know many of you are natural-born healers who struggle to balance it all without burning out. I’ve been there, too.

In this episode, I share how being a healer impacts our ability to have healthy boundaries and how to identify if you’re a high-functioning codependent (many healers are!). Raising your awareness around these behaviors will help you avoid burning out.


  • 7:15 What it means to codependently relate to people in your life
  • 13:40 The symptoms of high-functioning codependency
  • 16:20 How anticipatory planning robs you of your presence in life
  • 18:55 Become aware of your own self-abandonment

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Take the boundary quiz and learn more about your Boundary Style

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