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“Having devotion and love and generosity emotionally from someone as a child heavily impacts who you become in the world, just like not having it impacts you.” – Terri Cole

Intro

Are you a generous giver in relationships?

Do you give from your heart? From a place of love?

Or are you a little more tit-for-tat, where you expect something specific in return for giving?

If you answered yes to any of these, or you recognize these patterns in your relationship, this episode is for you. I break down the difference between relational unions (more heart-centered) and transactional unions (more quid pro quo).

I also give you steps to become more balanced between the two, because you do not want the pendulum to swing too far in either direction.

Highlights:

• 4:00 What is the difference between relational and transactional relationships?
• 06:00 How imbalanced relationships lead to burnout for the more relational partner
• 10:30 The important qualities of a relational union vs. a transactional one
• 15:30 How your tendency to be transactional or relational might relate to your childhood

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