“When you have clear and appropriately flexible boundaries, you have a deep understanding of yourself, your preferences, your desires, your needs, your limits, and your deal breakers, and you can communicate all of them effectively.”
– Terri Cole
Do you ever wonder how you’re doing when it comes to boundaries?
Healthy boundary setting is a lifetime skill and that means it takes practice. Our boundaries continually evolve throughout our lives and our relationships, so even if you feel like you’re already a boundary boss, it’s great to take an inventory every so often.
In today’s episode, I’m breaking down the five different types of boundaries and walking you through how to do a boundary inventory so you can see where to focus your attention to strengthen your skills.
- The five boundary types
- 03:37 Physical boundaries
- 04:30 Sexual boundaries
- 05:50 Material boundaries
- 08:10 Mental boundaries
- 10:20 Emotional boundaries
- 12:10 Signs of excessively rigid or malleable boundaries
- 16:00 Take an inventory of people and circumstances that cause boundary problems and the types of boundaries that they affect
Find the downloadable guide I made to go along with today’s episode here.
Take the boundary quiz and learn more about your Boundary Style
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