“We need to support the people in our lives in achieving the same sovereignty that we are working toward for ourselves.” – Terri Cole
How do you feel when other people tell you “no”? Even if you are a good at setting your own boundaries, it’s natural to feel defensive or afraid when others do the same because accepting others’ boundaries is a different set of skills to learn. In today’s episode, I teach you some steps to be as graceful and gracious in accepting the boundaries of others as you would like them to be in receiving yours.
- 07:10 Not all boundaries are deal breakers
- 09:04 How do you feel when others assert boundaries?
- 14:02 Boundary respect goes both ways
- 14:36 Recognize that others are different from you
- 16:54 Ask questions to understand others’ boundaries
- 18:44 Accept others’ boundaries even if you don’t understand the reasons behind them
- 19:24 Wanting sovereignty for those in your life
If you like the show and want to continue your journey toward being a boundary boss with guided activities alongside like-minded humans, consider signing up for my course, Boundary Bootcamp.
My book Boundary Boss has a chapter full of boundary scripts to help you set (or accept!) boundaries confidently and gracefully in any scenario you can imagine.
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