hey anxiety…you’re goin’ DOWN!!

Happy Saturday Mornin’ Calm Zen Chill Posse!
I have had many requests to tackle the terrifying topic of ANXIETY and how to best manhandle that baby to the ground. The first thing we need to do is establish what constitutes anxiety. There are many different types, but according to the DSM4, the diagnostic manual that doctors use, Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD) is the most commonly diagnosed. Over 40 million Americans suffer from some form of anxiety according to the National Institute of Mental Health. The simple definition of GAD is experiencing excessive anxiety and worry more days than not, for a period of at least six months. Go to http://www.medterms.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=23938 for the full definition. There is also situational anxiety for example, feeling anxious before a speech or a meeting with your boss or after being diagnosed with an illness. Some people feel anxiety for what seems like no reason at all. The symptoms of anxiety include, but are not limited to, rapid heart beat, cold and clammy hands, dizziness, shortness of breath, muscle tension, jumpiness, gastro-intestinal discomfort, feeling on edge, fatigue and feelings of fear or dread. Identifying what triggers your anxiety is paramount to controlling it especially when it is situational.
The first step is ruling out behavioral factors that may be impacting your level of anxiety. Initially when a new client presents with an anxiety disorder I have them fill out a questionnaire regarding their lifestyle and eating habits. If a person is anxious and through the questionnaire I discover that they drink two pots of caffeinated coffee a day, it is safe to assume that this is part of the problem or, maybe the entire problem. We deal with the caffeine addiction and then see if their level of anxiety changes.
Some elements, within your control, that may affect your anxiety level are on the
AVOID LIST:
Caffeine Consumption-Switch to decaf or better yet herbal tea. Caffeine can trigger an anxiety attack, is extremely acidic (bad for overall health) AND prematurely ages your skin, to boot!
Alcohol Consumption-See above and add “beating on your liver” to the WHY NOTS of too much drinking. (Again acid city!)
Proper Hydration-You should be consuming half of your weight in ounces of water per day. Dehydration can exacerbate anxiety and present as other illnesses.
Sleep Deprivation-Lack of sleep can make you more vulnerable to anxiety. You should be getting 7-8 hours a night.
There are many natural ways to combat and prevent anxiety in addition to the above AVOID list. Here is a
TO DO list:
Exercise Yoga Meditation- 30 minutes a day of exercise will relieve anxiety. Meditating properly can clear your mind and keep things in perspective. Yoga does both.
Aromatherapy- Creating a calm space wherever you are is crucial to controlling and avoiding anxiety. Essential oils like Lavender (my fave), jasmine, rose, sandalwood, and melissa are all specifically for creating calm. Carry at least one with you at all times and use during your breathing exercise and anytime you need an infusion of calming bliss!
Breathing Exercise- Dr. Andrew Weil shares his 4-7-8 Breathing Method in Prevention Magazine as one of the simplest ways to evoke your body’s natural relaxation response. You can do this daily or just use it before a stressful meeting or presentation. To start, sit with your back straight, place the tip of your tongue against the ridge of tissue just behind your front teeth and keep it there through out the exercise. Exhale through your mouth around your tongue with your lips slightly closed. Follow these steps:
*Empty your lungs, making a whooshing sound.
*Close your mouth and inhale through your nose to the mental count of 4.
*Hold your breath for a count of 7.
*Again, blow out through your mouth, making a whooshing sound to a count of 8.
*This is one breath. Repeat this cycle three more times for a total of four breathes.
Stress Session-Set aside 15 minutes a day as your designated time to worry about anything that is on your mind. If anxiety starts to creep in at other times, remind yourself to deal with it during your Stress Session ONLY!
Create a Calming Ritual-Brew a strong cup of chamomile tea before bed, take a bath with Epsom salts and lavender oil, barter with your local massage therapist, and listen to soothing music or a guided meditation. Visualize yourself calm and centered. Feel those feelings. Part of handling anxiety is getting rid of the anticipatory fear. Instead of expecting to be ambushed by anxiety, visualize and expect to be calm all day –no matter what happens. What happens has everything to do with what you THINK will happen…so think something good. NO NEWS AT NIGHT!
Treatment
There are many drugs to treat anxiety. I have found that a combination of cognitive behavioral therapy and natural remedies work just as well, most of the time, with less side effects. I am not anti doctor or medication and refer clients to psychiatrists in the event that the natural remedies do not alleviate the symptoms. By all means contact your doctor if nothing else provides relief from your symptoms. Most of the herbal remedies mentioned below are available at your local health food store.
Passionflower- (Passion incarnata) is a powerful herbal relaxation aid with no side effects. In a study done by researchers at Tehran University in Iran discovered Passionflower to be as effective as the anxiety-relieving drug Oxazepam. It comes in capsule or tincture form.
Valerian Extract-Taken in doses of 50-500 mg this herb relieves anxiety. It usually works within 30 minutes and is non addictive.
Green Tea Extract- Green tea extract contains and amino acid, L-theanine, that produces anti anxiety effects.
Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT)-
Below is a link to an excellent website by Thomas A. Richards, Ph.D., Psychologist with a ton of great information and how to change your mind and your anxiety level. CBT is used specifically for anxiety disorders with excellent results. Look for a therapist trained in CBT.
http://www.anxietynetwork.com/hcbt.html
I hope that some of the above will help you manhandle your anxiety to the ground. You know I am here to help and am happy to answer any questions that are posted.
MANIFEST VISUALIZE CREATE
Love Love Love
Terri


this was great info terri…i have suffered from anxiety on and off for several years…
talk soon,
lisa fischoff
hey lisa-
thanks for starting the conversation and stopping by my site
love love love,
terri
thanks Terri, this came at the right time!
you are always so inspiring. Some days I need a little shot of Terri to remind me what is possible: everything!
the video at Symphony Space is incredible– thanks for sharing!
love!!
Leah
This is all so great and so do-able. Sound, practical advice. I have tried Valerian Root Extract and found it very helpful … the stench from the bottle is daunting but well worth it. Will start drinking the teas again … good reminder! My nightly ritual continues to be a blessing, especially with lavender but will add the chamomile for extra help. Your advice is always so helpful. LOVE the illustration too! ’til next time, Linda Lou
Very succinctly stated. Congrats on another great posting. There have been quite a number of studies correlating the positive effects of exercise, yoga, and meditation not only on anxiety but depression as well. Exercise doesn’t have to be manic either. Good mindful walking does wonders. Through our son, Alex, we have become introduced to Chi Walking and Chi Running by Danny Dreyer. Am looking forward to really implementing them.
Yeah, so I was having some pretty big issues with this. And I took up Bikram Yoga (a somewhat controversial practice) and really rhymes with what was said above. It’s 90 minutes in a nasty hot room that starts and ends with a breathing exercise. You can’t drink that much coffee or booze or class become the threshold of hell, so I was forced to drastically cut down on that stuff. I also had to up my water consumption a ton So it really evened me out. It used to take me hours to fall asleep and now I’m out in 30mins and I sleep well. I was taking prilosec and nexium, this garbage that helps repair stomach and esophagus (spelling?) erosion, that is often caused by stress and I don’t need it anymore. Food for thought.
hey ryan-
i love bikram when i get the chance (none where i live). for me personally physical fitness is a savior for all of the reasons you stated and more. it is one of very few things that remain non negotiable in my life.
thanks for your in put
love love love,
terri
Terri,
great topic, so many of my women and men friends deal with anxiety regularly. taking action is the best remedy and the actions you have listed are practical and effective. i have also found yoga, eating right, morning meditation and prayer keep me in a state of calm, most times anyway. thanks for the info.
thanks heidi for sharing your great ideas!
love love love,
terri
To me, I would much rather deal with my anxiety with some good CBT, essential oils, stress reduction, yoga, etc before I decide to go with meds. However, I am wondering WHEN I should consider meds? Sometimes I think I’ve really worked hard on all the great “natural”/other stuff, but the anxiety still bugs me. Maybe its worth a discussion with the therapist?!?
hey rach-
then talk therapy is the next stop on your mental health FREEDOM HIGHWAY!!
i KNOW from being a therapist and having MANY (and i DO mean many) years of my own awesome therapy that talk therapy really works. sometimes anxiety is chemical and sometimes situational. with talk therapy if there is a deep root to what is creating the anxiety it can be un earthed and dealt with effectively. sometimes we get unopend packages handed down from one generation to the next of crap we could much better live without, ya know? i am grateful my mother did not share all of her many fears with me growing up. i never knew until i was grown that she was afraid to swim (cause she did although in a side stroke-y lame kinda way-bathing cap on head lol) afraid to drive, afraid of new york city and a zillion other things but she always thought I could do anything and made me know that so she really hooked me up! it may be helpful to really try to ask yourself the WHAT of your anxiety-meditate on it and ask for clarity-breathe deep and listen and i believe your answers will come to you. if you are doing all of the other stuff you mentioned and want to use meds as a very last resort (which i get but no shame in needing them if it is chemical and there is no reason you should suffer because you, my dear are VERY educated and savvy and your state of mind-a gal after my own heart
hope that helps,
love love love,
terri